All right everyone, quite honestly, I find this thread extremely pointless. Both sides have laid down their opinions and mindsets, you both know what each other are thinking, and rather than drag this on, I'm going to end this. Mona, I'm sorry you went through what you did in your personal life, no one here has control over that, and you have my condolences. Jimmy Gnecco and JealousGirl however y'all got sucked into this, don't let it get to you. Rumours will spread no matter what, as long as you are aware of your own actions, why care so much about what other people think? Not everyone in the world has to get along with each other. There are those we know who we simply tolerate. It's pointless to keep going around pointing fingers and calling out names. Just move on and enjoy the other members on this forum. There are more than 3, I promise you.