Dear Ashley, I want to reinvent myself but do not know how to do so without my parents knowing I'm gay. I want to dye my hair either black or blond for my gaga concert and also want to start working out and wearing nicer clothes. My parents are homophobic so what shall I do? I don't understand why they haven't taken a hint when they have pictures of me when I was 3-6 making out with another boy while I was being babysat. What to do? I really want to come out but I know if I do my parents might kick me out. I also want a boyfriend or something because I'm lonely and not to many people like me or find me interesting. I mean I don't have anyone to talk to about having crushes on guys and etc #hardouthereforagay Thanks, Nathan